Sunday, June 25, 2017
Thursday, June 22, 2017
SHARE THE LOVE: Live Your Life Without Regrets (by LEA MISHELL)
SHARE THE LOVE
Live Your Life Without Regrets
by Lea Mishell
I love my PolyAm life but let's be honest: Reality truly bites!!!
You may have noticed that I've switched to a monthly format for SHARE THE LOVE. Initially, I wanted to write weekly but at the time that I started writing STL, I was coming to grips with the failures my husband and I had experienced during our first year of living openly polyamorous. Feeling the need to help others learn from my mistakes, I posted topics based on past experiences while having new and better ones, molded from what I continuously learn. After juggling family, work and writing for years, it's been difficult for me to put my writing on the backburner but in order for me to produce quality writing, I need to fully experience my life. I can't fully enjoy my life without my family or my writing. My writing isn't financially supporting my family so I have to work. Life. Happens.
So this year, I switched to a monthly schedule and it was fine until this month. I hope that it's posted before May 31st but if it isn't, that doesn't mean I won't write for June also. As long as I have breath in my lungs, I will write. Just bear with me as my phone was stolen on May 4th from my current PayJob. I know exactly who did it and I don't expect my property returned so I'm leaving it up to Karma to sort that out while I keep moving forward.
Since I’ve last chatted with you, Hubby has met my Gorgeous lady friend and all continues to be well. As I am the pivot of our dynamic, I have kept them updated about each other since I met her and it was a joy to see them interact in person. In addition to me, they have much in common, the main fact that they are both Leos. I already know the challenge of a male Leo from my marriage to Hubby but I was raised by a Leo mother so, if anything, adding a Gorgeous Leo lady may be just the balance I need!
I've had moments in my life where I may have made an error in judgment at that time but EVERY choice I've made has led me to THIS moment so to be honest, I'm thankful for the choices I've made so far. Because of them, I am happily living in an openly polyamorous marriage instead of limiting myself to one person while craving more. I have allowed myself to explore a portion of my life that I felt I needed to suppress in order to be loved not knowing that I was not only limiting who I loved but also who I allowed into my life. My life story is still being written and it won't stop until the day I die so until then, I refuse to live a life of regret.
“Never do anything you'll regret. Never regret anything you do.” - Lea Mishell
For more polyamory terminology, check out the MORE THAN TWO website: https://www.morethantwo.com/polyglossary.html
If you would like to submit a question to SHARE THE LOVE, send an email to BlacktopiaBusiness@gmail.com with SHARE THE LOVE QUESTION in the subject line.
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Polyamorous and striving to be Permanently Positive, Lea Mishell is a wife, mother of 3, and an author of urban fairy tales and erotica. Her works can be found at www.leanpub.com/b/TheLeaMishellCollection
SHARE THE LOVE is published exclusively for Blacktopia.org
© 2016-2017 Lea Mishell. All rights reserved.
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Tuesday, June 13, 2017
Dope Girl Juice Radio gets behind Cooley High's "Big Ol'" single with Mystikal
Jacari Caprice of DOPE GIRL JUICE RADIO is loving the new single from Blacktopia featured artist COOLEY HIGH titled "Big Ol'" featuring Mystikal.
This is what she had to say.....
"Aye frfr big ol is my shit,
I need to link up with him"
-Jacari Caprice
Jacari Caprice will spin Cooley High's music on DOPE GIRL JUICE RADIO!
Cooley High featuring Mystikal
"Big Ol'" Available on iTunes
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Wednesday, June 7, 2017
COOLEY HIGH meet and greet June 23rd - June 25th
Come out and kick it with Blacktopia featured artist Cooley High in Las Vegas on June 23rd through June 25th at Kama Club (The Rooftop) at The Turmeric. 700 E. Fremont Street, Las Vegas Nevada. E-mail Ms. Terri at vaunyers@gmail.com for more information! This is an event you don’t want to miss!
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Check out this amazing collection sexy and seductive passages written by Author D. Christopher Harvey titled SIN-credible Ink: A Headhunter'sCollection. You can check out the book at this direct link
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Purchase the book from Shys Debiocci titled 2 Ways 2 Hustle here on Amazon at this direct link
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1511983647/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=produ0f7-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=1511983647&linkId=a7f593e82dc55176f446263f324c4912
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Monday, June 5, 2017
#MotivationalMonday: Flyy Drexler's "Bring You Down" (Motivational Song)
Listen to the new #MotivationalMonday anthem of the week by Flyy Drexler titled "Bring You Down", a song about never letting anyone with the crabs in a barrel mentality bring you down to their level. Enjoy the song by clicking the link below...
https://www.spreaker.com/user/southeasthiphop/flyy-drexler-bring-you-down-clean
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Check out this amazing collection sexy and seductive passages written by Author D. Christopher Harvey titled SIN-credible Ink: A Headhunter'sCollection. You can check out the book at this direct link
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Purchase the book from Shys Debiocci titled 2 Ways 2 Hustle here on Amazon at this direct link
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A WIFE's role is NOT just to BE YOUR COOK (response to KENNY TALK)
Blacktopia facebook group staple, youtuber and radio talk show host Kenny Talk of the Kenny Talk Experience recently posted a list of reasons of why he feels it's important for women to be "great cooks" to their man and his opinion on why cooking is essential to her relationship with the man through his growing youtube series "Relationship Truths".
You can view the entire video at this direct link
https://youtu.be/pJkx_E1TDgQ
Proud member and active group participant Vickie Santana watched the video and shared her response to Kenny's latest Relationship Truths on the subject and this was her response.
I need to start by saying I’m incredibly traditional. My parents had an arranged marriage, preceded by 3 chaperoned dates, and raised their children with traditional values. My dad worked, my mum stayed at home. Too many “modern” men, think a relationship is one-sided. What a woman can do for “him” vs the mindset of what he can bring into a relationship.
(1) Cooking skills should NOT be a determinate factor in assessing if a woman is dating, marriage, or mother material. It’s superficial.
(2) Cooking does not nourish the body. Healthy, clean food nourishes the body and can be 100% raw. IJS
(3) If a man expects women to “be prepared to be homemaker”, he needs to be prepared to be the sole financial provider.
(4) When households were traditional, naturally women had more time to hone the skills of her gender role. That said…expecting the qualities of a traditional woman while demanding/needing non-traditional behavior by her having to be in the workforce should also mean the expectations of a traditional woman’s skills be adjusted.
(5) If a man works 40 hrs and a lady works 40 hours men should not expect women to solely produce nor master all the skills of a traditional homemaker, but should be prepared to roll up their sleeves and contribute toward 50% of the homemaker duties.
(6) Perhaps her recipe or ingredients changed because after 6 months to a year, a lady is not so keen on the stagnation of “playing house” anymore. We know in short order if someone is compatible and worthy of building a dynasty with. Every relationship has a honeymoon phase and reaches the level where your “representative” steps aside and the true nature of a person comes out. Some of ya’ll simply don’t need to be continued being fed.
(7) People should not to “compel” someone into hanging around. Compel means to oblige by the use of force or pressure.
(8) To assume that no matter how a man acts or what he does, a lady’s behavior should remain the same is utter nonsense. So a woman should remain consistent while a man acts a fool. Ok. Not.
Both Kenny and Vickie make excellent points! WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK? E-mail us at BlacktopiaBusiness@gmail.com and give us your thoughts or feel free to post your opinions in the Blacktopia facebook group.
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Check out this amazing collection sexy and seductive passages written by Author D. Christopher Harvey titled SIN-credible Ink: A Headhunter'sCollection. You can check out the book at this direct link
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Purchase the book from Shys Debiocci titled 2 Ways 2 Hustle here on Amazon at this direct link
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1511983647/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=produ0f7-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=1511983647&linkId=a7f593e82dc55176f446263f324c4912
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